I was never the first pick for babysitting. Not because I lacked love, but because, according to my daughter Mira, I wasn’t exactly “modern dad material.” And honestly? She had a point. Car seats look like NASA tech. Bottles come with ventilation systems I can’t pronounce. And diaper bags? Half the time I couldn’t even find the diapers in those overbuilt backpacks.
Still, when Mira called me that morning—frazzled, out of breath—I didn’t hesitate.
“Dad, can you please take Ellie? The sitter canceled, daycare isn’t answering, and I’m already late for an interview.”
“Drop her off,” I told her. “We’ll figure it out.”
Six minutes later, she was at my door. In a blur, she handed off her daughter, rattled off instructions like I was disarming a bomb, and drove off. I stared down at little Ellie in my arms.
“Well,” I said, “it’s just you and me, kid.”
We ended up at Taco Zone—not because I needed tacos at ten a.m., but because it was warm, quiet, and had wipeable surfaces. I tucked us into a booth. Ellie perched in my lap, and my coat pocket housed a last-minute applesauce jar and a plastic spoon.
She fussed at first. I tried knee-bouncing—no good. Gave her a napkin, which she shredded like a pro. Then she spotted my old flip phone.
Her eyes lit up. I pressed a button, the screen glowed blue, and she gasped. Like I’d just shown her fire. She leaned against me, mesmerized, clutching my coat zipper with those tiny fingers. And just like that, I felt like I mattered in a way I hadn’t in years.
Then the door flew open with a jingle.
A woman stormed in—early 30s, clearly flustered. She scanned the place, spotted us, and came right over.
“Is this your child?” she barked. “Does anyone know this man?!”
I blinked. Ellie flinched.
“She’s falling asleep on him like he drugged her or something! He doesn’t even have a diaper bag!”
“I—she’s my granddaughter,” I stammered. “Her mom—”
“She’s too quiet. That’s not normal!”
Ellie blinked up at her, confused, and I felt my throat close up. The woman raised her phone, ready to call the cops—or worse, film me.
That’s when a voice rang out behind the counter.
“Are you serious right now?”
It was Andrea, the cashier. I hadn’t recognized her—hair up, gloves on, elbow-deep in guacamole—but she lived a few houses down. She’d seen me and Ellie on our daily stroller loops.
“That’s Mr. Hollen,” she said, stepping out from behind the counter. “And that’s his granddaughter. I see them together all the time.”
The woman froze. “I was just being cautious.”
Andrea crossed her arms. “You caused a scene. You scared the baby. Next time, ask before you accuse someone.”
The woman muttered something about “crazy world” and bolted, door slamming behind her.
I sank back into the booth, heart pounding. Ellie gave a tiny hiccup—and then giggled. I laughed too, a shaky sound of pure relief.
Andrea walked over and crouched by our booth. “She okay?”
I nodded. “Tougher than me.”
She smiled. “You did great, Mr. Hollen.”
I glanced down. “I didn’t even bring a diaper bag.”
“She didn’t need one,” she said. “She needed you.”
Ellie nodded off again, cheek squished against my chest, totally unaware of the chaos that had just passed.
I sat there for a while, sipping the free coffee Andrea brought me. Watching traffic, holding a baby who trusted me completely. And somewhere in that quiet moment, I realized: it was never about knowing all the parenting tricks. It was about showing up.
When Mira picked Ellie up later, I told her what happened. She went from shocked to furious to laughing within minutes. Then she hugged me—longer than usual.
“Thank you, Dad,” she said.
“She’s a good kid,” I told her. “You’re doing a great job.”
“So are you,” she replied.
That night, I found a gift bag on my porch. Inside was a sleek new diaper bag with a note from Mira: “Just in case. You’ve earned it.”
I chuckled, shaking my head. Maybe I wasn’t so out-of-date after all.
And the next morning, I found myself thinking…
When can I babysit again?
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