She was a well known actress with over a hundred films to her name, but a single regrettable choice drastically altered the way she looked.

Lyn May’s life has been shaped by determination, transformation, and an unwavering refusal to let anyone else decide who she should be. Long before she became one of Mexico’s most recognizable performers, she was simply Lilia Guadalupe Mendiola Mayares, a young girl in Acapulco selling souvenirs to tourists along the beach. Born in 1952 to a Chinese-Mexican family, she learned responsibility early. She waited tables, helped support her family, and learned to navigate a world that offered very few open doors. Her marriage to an American sailor brought her two daughters and a brief sense of stability, but when that period came to an end, she stood at a turning point. Most people would have stepped into a predictable life. Lyn chose something entirely different.
Her transformation began with dance, of all things. She had no formal training. What she did have was instinct, rhythm, and a magnetic presence people couldn’t look away from. That natural pull caught the attention of producers who invited her onto Siempre en Domingo, one of the most influential TV programs in Mexico at the time. Viewers were instantly drawn to her confidence and charm. Soon after, impresario Enrique Lombardini asked her to perform at the historic Teatro Esperanza Iris. Lyn hesitated because burlesque was far from an obvious direction for someone with her background. Yet the moment she stepped onstage, everything fell into place. Her blend of elegance, sensuality, and humor earned her the nickname “The Goddess of Love,” and her rise became unstoppable.
By the mid 1970s and through the 1980s, Lyn became a defining figure of the Ficheras film era, a genre mixing comedy, nightlife, music, and strong female leads. She appeared in more than a hundred films and cemented herself as a Mexican pop culture icon. Her success wasn’t just about beauty or dancing. It was her charisma, the quality that made her unforgettable. And when the entertainment world began shifting, she refused to disappear. She adapted and continued working in television, documentaries, and music videos, anything that kept her connected to the audience that had embraced her.
Her personal life held its own chapters. With businessman Antonio Chi Su, she shared a relationship built on both romance and entrepreneurship as they ran a restaurant together. Later, she spent many years with producer Guillermo Calderón Stell, a partnership that lasted until his death in 2018. These steadier parts of her life supported a public image that was bold, theatrical, and unapologetically herself.
Even age never dimmed that spark. In her late sixties, she still had the ability to grab headlines. In 2021, she playfully announced that she was pregnant at 68. The joke fooled many and reminded everyone that her mischievous energy had never gone anywhere. Yet behind the flair and humor, Lyn also carried moments of vulnerability.
In the early 1990s, she underwent a cosmetic procedure that went wrong and changed her appearance dramatically. Many public figures would have hidden away. Lyn did not. She spoke openly about what happened and turned a painful, regretful experience into another chapter of resilience. Instead of letting judgment bury her, she took back control of her story. She kept performing, kept showing up, and kept being exactly who she chose to be.
Today, Lyn May remains active, visible, and completely unapologetic about who she is. She is more than an entertainer. She is a survivor of an industry that often breaks people. Her story shows that fame is not about flawless beauty or perfection. It is about reinvention. It is about surviving changes in culture, career, and identity. It is about pushing forward even when life veers off course.
From a girl selling trinkets on the beaches of Acapulco to a woman who built a decades-long career through sheer will, Lyn May represents adaptability and strength. She created her own place in a world that was never built for her. She stumbled, reinvented herself, and kept going. In doing so, she became a cultural icon with an influence that reaches far beyond film.
Her legacy is not defined by fame or controversy alone. It is defined by her courage to evolve, her humor in the face of scrutiny, and her determination to live boldly no matter what challenges come her way.



